Daddy. Frederick Lawrence Kojo Bartels, arrived on April 2, ’51 & left on Boxing day ’13

the eulogy i said for my father – spoken Friday January 3rd, 2014. DADDY Β Β Β Β Β Β Β  I am so very blessed that you & kb (mom) had me, taught me, informed me and created… Continue reading

this one’s for DREW…

SO what do you give someone who has all the love in the world, all the admiration, all the talent, all the respect of his peers, all the everything… for his birthday. I… Continue reading

lazy saturday

so i woke up this morning to cloudy london skies and rain and i SMILED… a big big cheshire cat grin… cause all i could think about is the fact that I had… Continue reading

a little bit about everything … but mainly cause it was somewhat requested.

it’s funny, the things you never know when you are living your life and allowing others to do the same. You don’t realise that things are happening or that people are watching cause… Continue reading

i’m going to be better…

So it’s been quite a while, Aaron’s untimely rude passing, kind of put me into numb mode. I need to return to normalcy, and back to writing and sharing. I finally feel like… Continue reading

public service announcement

so I just wanted to apologise for my poor blog etiquette … this is not an excuse but the reason and the declaration of the solution. I NEVER read what I have written… Continue reading

life, death, rising & every day after that

So, I haven’t been on here in a good while. I have valid reasons – I promise. I didn’t know what to say, where to say it, how to say it..obviously from my… Continue reading

Aaron

  you know when you spend a day in a complete haze. your eyes hurt from crying & trying not to cry. you head hurts cause you forgot to eat but your belly… Continue reading

End of the Oil Boom…

so I’ve been meaning to write about this for a while, the original idea for this blog was with the intention of talking about my shoes and the men in my life. And… Continue reading

Choices

So it’s been a while, but I been busy, good busy, between getting a job (not my dream job but money is money & I’m coming across interesting characters), going to wireless (which… Continue reading